Individual
$9/month
Unlimited solo reflection, private debriefs, and pattern tracking.
- Unlimited solo check-ins
- Private debriefs
- Pattern tracking
- Repair scripts
For processing a hard conversation alone without making claims about anyone else.
Stop having the same fight. Start seeing the pattern.
A calm guided check-in that helps couples and families understand what's really underneath the arguments that keep coming back — without taking sides.
2 min to start
Speak or type freely.
No taking sides
Patterns, not verdicts.
Actually helpful
One real repair script.
Most fights aren't about what you think they're about.
They're about two people leaving the same moment with different realities. Here's how you fix that.
1
Each person reflects privately
Describe one moment in your own words. The other person won't see what you wrote. There's no right answer — just your honest experience.
2
The pattern becomes visible
The app maps what overlaps, what differs, and what keeps repeating. Not who's right or wrong — what's actually happening underneath.
3
Get one repair that works
You'll get a single repair script that names what each person was trying to protect — without blame, pressure, or fake apologies.
Everything you need to break the cycle.
Guided check-ins
Prompts walk you through what happened, what you meant, what you heard, and what you need — without putting the other person on trial.
Shared pattern map
See where your accounts overlap, where they differ, and what pattern keeps organizing the fight. Clarity without blame.
Solo reflection
Not ready to share? Process a moment alone first. Get a private debrief. Switch to shared mode when you're ready.
Family & multi-person
Add a partner, parent, or sibling. Each person reflects privately. See how patterns connect across relationships.
Designed to bring people closer, not push them apart.
Each person enters privately. Nothing is shared without consent. The goal is understanding — not winning, not diagnosis, not pressure.
Your words stay yours
Share only what you choose
Stop or pause anytime
Works for families too
Start free. Upgrade when you're ready.
7-day free trial on every plan. Cancel anytime.
Most popular
Couple
$19/month
Shared intake, shared map, weekly brief, trust ledger, and consent controls.
- Everything in Individual
- Shared intake & map
- Weekly brief
- Trust ledger
- 2 accounts
For two people who both agree to map one repeating moment together.
Family
$29/month
Up to 5 participants, cross-relationship insights, and multi-person pattern maps.
- Everything in Couple
- Up to 5 participants
- Cross-relationship insights
- Multi-person synthesis
- 5 accounts
For families, co-parents, or anyone navigating multiple intertwined relationships.
Need help deciding? Read our guide
One check-in often changes everything.
Most people wait until the argument has been repeating for years. You don't have to.
Try your first check-in free